I am getting out of a relationship and I want you girls to take my advice because most likely it's true. This is how you know a guy is using you:

1.) If you live with him and not married. Once you guys argue he will kick you out and not care if you leave because he already used you.

2.) Not let you check through his phone.

If you got nothing to hide you and him should have no problem going through each others phone. Thats bullshit about personal space.

3.) He does not tell his parents about you.

If he is taking to long about you meeting his parents he's using you.

4. If he ever calls you a bitch when you guys are mad he is definitely using you. When we are mad we say what is hidden in our hearts.

Take this advice because if your with a guy like this don't waste your time! You are special and deserve the best. You deserve marriage not boyfriend girlfriend relationship.