Venting
I don't usually vent about things but I'm pregnant and the hormones are making me overly dramatic and I know that because I feel like a crazy woman. I'm upset right now and I want to just run away from life (hormones). My SO is an awesome person. He works hard and is good to me. We don't usually fight or argue and I am thankful for that. We are expecting our first child together, my second. My SO is younger than me, he's only 22. When we started messing around, I wasn't expecting it to last because of his age and where we were at in life. He wasn't looking for a relationship and I had left a really bad marriage. We just fell into a relationship naturally, it was a pleasant surprise. When we first started dating he went out almost every night. He is in the Army and when not on a deployment, he bar tends or serves at a restaurant. They close before the bars around him so he likes to go out after work and visit with the other bartenders he knows and play pool. I used to go with him and I can see I can trust him and even when I don't go with him I can guess exactly what he is doing because he is so habitual. Trust with him isn't my issue. As we kept dating he naturally started going out less and got down to one night or maybe none during the week. Now I'm three months pregnant and we have moved. He has gone out three nights in a row without me. I'm sure he wouldn't mind me being there, my car is broke down atm and the places he goes to are right by his work across town. It's doesn't make sense to come get me and then go plus I can't drink. None the less I am hurt he is going out again. We both work and I bought a movie for us to watch together three days ago, we still haven't spent any time together to watch it. I think because I was in such a bad relationship before, I want to run away when there's something bothering me, i don't think it's his fault. We haven't argued over his going out and I didn't ask him not to but he did bring up the fact that he used to go out every night and now he doesn't and wanted to know if I expected him to change. Should I just ride it out and see if he naturally cuts back or should I tell him it's too much to go out that often? Do you think he's doing it because I'm pregnant and he might worry he won't be able to do these kinds of things once the baby is here?
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