New here! Just a little about me.

I've spent forever trying to find a group like this. Well, I'm Risa 23 yrs old, weigh 350lbs. I'm ttc again with my second. Recently had a MC with my first child and I'm want to try to get healthier before I start trying again. I gave myself a goal of loosing 50lbs at minimum before I start trying. My Dr told me my weight had nothing to do with my MC but I feel like it does. I just want to give myself something else to be focused on, and off all that energy towards something productive. Do any of you ladies have children already? How was that pregnancy compared to trying now?