After 3 months of actively trying I got my bfp this morning. I didn't want to test since I had so many symptoms last month and my cycle was 41 days which is abnormal and I was indeed not pregnant. My husband insisted I test because he really felt I might be. I decided on a dollar tree test so I didn't waste money just to have a bfn and I got a bfp!!! I was so surprised! We are so excited!!! This is number 4 for us.