Need some serious advice ladies! ?▂?

Is there any other ladies out there that has issues with your men who has no or little interest in having sex anymore?

My issue is #1. TTC every month is tiring and I so miss the intimacy we had. I had many talks with him about this and it still doesn't get it through his head!! He sees all the baby making as a chore, and if by the grace of God we have a baby, I wanna make a baby while making sweet passionate love not a "wham bam thank you man!" When we got together again, we had good sex, sometimes 3x's a day! I just never thought it would come to this!

My 2nd issue is, a big part of the issue is some of the meds he's on. (He's a type 2 diabetic) and I can totally empathize with that but at the same time I miss the intimacy we used to have. I NEVER had to pretty much beg for sex and I mostly beg while we are on this TTC journey! It's getting more difficult every month. But all the sex we have now is 5-7 times a month! I'm upset, frustrated, sad, miserable and sex deprived! I'm 35 years old, he'll be 40 years old this weekend! It's so sad to think my grandparents used to get it on more than we do now! I love sex, I love everything about it but what can I do? Many conversations about this topic. He always blames the meds, (which is true) but Geez every couple needs intimacy, especially young couples... even though I know it's not easy for him...He also now takes a med to help him "stand at attention" (If you know what I mean) I tried sex toys, lingerie, romantic music, and even offered him a relaxing message with a happy ending! I'm outta options and almost to the point where we are not getting along. I know he's trying but I wish he would try a little bit harder, harder to the point that he stays hard! LOL... I have no one else to talk to about this, so I was hoping my Glow friends can help and support me! Thx ladies for reading glasses this long ass post. And I appreciate any advice I can get! I'm desperate...**sigh**😞 😥 😔