Am I wrong?

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So last month my husband and I set up our appointment to go find out our baby's gender is. Well today he told me that he is not going because he would rather go out hunting. I'm just wondering if I'm wrong for thinking that if it was important to him then he would be there.

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Wow. His priorities are definitely not in the correct order.

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I don't think you're wrong to be upset, but I hope you can forgive your hubby. This baby is probably starting to feel real to him, and he might be quietly freaking out about becoming a dad. 
He is probably realising that when your baby arrives, he won't be able to spend a weekend out hunting with the guys, or go for a few beers after work (or whatever he does to socialise and unwind) let him know you are disappointed that he isn't coming, but that you understand he needs time with his friends to relax. 
Getting mad will just make him defensive, so be as reasonable as possible, and then maybe plan a girls weekend for you and a few friends, so you can also relax and enjoy yourself.

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I made my boyfriend take the day off work so he could be there when we found out the gender, it was very important to me since he wont be able to make it to any other ultrasounds most likely. Id be very mad, especially if yall have already had the plans!

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Sorry to hear that! That must be hard! I don't think you are wrong at all to be mad and hurt!  😔
My bf came to the ultrasound even though he had the flu and was sitting there with a bucket the whole time. So I think he should definitely be there over hunting! 
If he's really insisting on going hunting and you do want to find out together one thing you could ask the tech is to put the gender in an envelope and open it with him when you get home.

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Sorry I don't think your wrong about this one , I'd be pissed ! Hunting really ? That's what you care about doing rather then seeing what the baby is and if their growing properly . Nope nope my husband would be getting straight attitude from me .

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I'd let him go, but tell him he can find somewhere else to stay when he's done.

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Shiiiiiit, my husbands uncle skipped his wife's sisters funeral because it was a good hunting weekend!

Men take their hunting seriously! But f that! He can take the morning off!

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Shame on him. I'd be pissed!

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