Labor rant

So I just gotta rant a little. I'm 19 and this is my first baby. Ever since I was old enough to know all about babies I've always said I wanted a natural birth. Well every time someone asks me what kind of birth I'm gonna have and I tell them I'm going to have as natural a birth as possible they give me this "you are crazy/ you DO NOT want to do that without pain meds/ you are gonna regret it" look and I just get a little upset about it, and I want so badly to say look it's my lady parts and what I do during my birth is what I wanna do. Now just because I say I want a natural birth doesn't mean I'll get it and I know that, I'm open to pain meds and an epadural if I NEED them, I just can't stand the looks I get from some people and most of the people are people who have kids my age, it just urks my nerves 😡😡😡😡😡😡