Help! Would this bother you?

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So recently  I discovered that my husbands "type" that he always preferred and looked for is not me at all. 
Apparently he likes very dark skin and dark eyes, basically everyone he thinks is pretty is this type, and I'm NOT any of those things. I'm 1/4 west African, 1/8 African American, 1/8 Native American, 1/4 Irish, and 1/4 Czechoslovakian, but I've got light skin, green eyes and freckles, lol. 
At least I have dark curly hair, which he's crazy about, but still I can't help feeling a little insecure about it. 
It's worse because even strangers sometimes come up to me and tell  me how gorgeous and unique my looks are, and it actually stings because really he is the one person I most want to appreciate it, and I feel like he couldn't get what he really wanted so he "settled" for me. I don't want to be a second best for anyone! I know this is silly, and I know he loves me, but I'm trying to figure out how to get my self esteem back up and not let this bother me. Has anyone ever been in a similar situation? How did you deal with it?

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Look, to be honest I know how you feel.. But sometimes people change their preferences when they fall in love with someone.

My boyfriend always went for the blonde bombshell. All his exes are fucking gorgeous with their pretty long hair and their blue eyes... And then there's me. Dark green hair, dark brown eyes, fair skin, fairly short, dress like a boy most of the time. TOTALLY not his type, but he is crazy about me. And I know that.. And sometimes when I look at his exes I'm like dude, why me?

The other thing is that he was never my type either. I DATED GIRLS!!! I went my whole life, no boys at all. And then I met him and wow.

Sometimes the heart just wants what it wants, no matter what you thought you wanted.

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I'm not my husband's typical type. We have been together 10 years. It doesn't bother me at all. He's not my type either, but I love him. It doesn't mean we aren't crazy attracted to one another.

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I wasn't my husbands type either. 
He likes em thick and I was 102 lbs when I met him, size 00. 
For the longest I felt insecure especially because I could never gain more than 3 lbs. 
But I know he wouldn't trade me for the world in fact he loves my body ! 
There's a reason he chose you, you're you and no other girl could possibly be you !

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Opposites attract... I marride my complete opposite of what I called MY TYPE and I'm crazy abt him... U have nothing to worry abt. Just know that he picked I for a reason...

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My type would be a tall tan guy with dark hair, I have dark hair and sallow skin with brown eyes, and my bf is pale as pale can be with red hair and green eyes, and even though this isn't my type I still think he is crazy hot

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Know what girl you are beautiful for who you are and if he don't like it he don't know what he missing and If he wanna keep going leave and someone will come your way and love you 100%

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