My husband and I have been trying to conceive for 2 years .... 😔 now I am not healthy by any means I am a smoker & also over weight !! I have started dieting and have lost 10 pounds  so far which is a big accomplishment for me . I have heard that being overweight and a smoker can play a big role in infertility. I often question myself if we should stop trying and wait until I can get my body prepared to have a baby .. But am so scared that something might be wrong with me and it wouldnt matter if I lost weight or not... I just got good insurance and will be going to the OBGYN soon .. Wish us luck ! ❤️