What do you wish more people understood about you?

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People say I'm wishy washy.
They don't understand that I enjoy being on my own and that if I want to make plans to do something I will contact them. This doesn't mean I don't appreciate them asking me....I just may not say yes as many times as they hope.

I don't talk to my parents for weeks at a time and same with my friends.
It's not that I don't want to. It's just that I have so much going on in my mind. I don't even think to call them. My mind can entertain me for hours.
Cause of this I don't have many friends at all.

But the people who are my friends...are my best friends cause they get me. We can go two months without hanging out and when we did it would seem like only yesterday.
So what do you wish more people understood about you?

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I wish my 2 little sisters understood that my whole childhood was the complete opposite of the piece of childhood they got. I wish they understood that I was and still am so protective of them because I didn't want them to go through the horrible things I did and be exposed to the horrible things I was; I don't want to see them get hurt in any way. I wish they understood that I helped Mom raise them, change their diapers, fed them, rocked them to sleep, held them when they were sick or couldn't sleep or didn't want to be alone, made sure they did their homework,  and a tone of other stuff parents do and because of that I'll always see them as my baby sisters.....no matter how old they are.

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I wish people could understand that I am an empath. If someone is sad around me, I feel it too. People's emotions affect me because I genuinely care. I am a "hermit" and don't have many friends because I prefer to stick with my close few and family and I always try to help people in anyway I can.

But I wish people would understand that I'm always helping them, sometimes I have to step back and focus on my family.

I hope that makes sense.

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I wish people would actually take the time to get to know me before making judgements or that people would hear me. I could say the same thing 4 times and it's like I wasn't even talking. I don't have a stand out personality I have a really bad resting bitch face and I say things at the wrongs times or say things that are stupid when I mean for them to be funny. The number one thing about myself I wish I could change is that I didn't appear so miserable to people  and I hold grudges for literally no reason.

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I could care less about other people, but I wish my husband could have grown up close to me so he could have a better understanding of my messed up family.
I feel like he might understand some of my oddities a bit more.

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I don't agree with most of what you say. But this is 100%.

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Are you me?

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I'm flaky too. I really wish my friends could understand that I'm not trying to ditch them, nor am I lonely. I'm very introverted. A small amount of interaction goes a very long way with me. I can avoid talking to someone for months and still feel the same about our relationship.

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i have anxiety n to b parient

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I sometimes wish that people would see that I am soft and sensitive on the inside. In fact, I'm the most sensitive and caring person I know (next to my other half).
However I block almost everyone emotionally and put up a big wall and this is sometimes seen as me being a cold or stoic.

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I wish people understood I'm not really an unfriendly b*itch. It's not that I don't like people, it's just due to past experience I have become very untrusting. I hate being alone all the time, but being around groups of people I don't know well gives me such bad anxiety I get physically ill. It makes it really hard to make friends, but if you give me a chance I'm the best damn friend on earth!

What do you wish more people understood about you?

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