Not feeling connected?

First time mom right here and I'll be 11 weeks tomorrow. I see everyone posting how much they love their baby. I just don't feel connected to him/her yet...... I guess maybe because it doesn't really feel real yet (even though I'm very sick and have had an ultrasound and saw baby). I have always wanted to be a mommy and I'm very excited for her/him to arrive! Anyone else feeling/felt this way?? Did you start to feel bonded with your baby when you could feel them kicking?