advice??

i've had sex a couple times before i've been with 4 people and each multiple times and then two weeks ago i slept with this black boy who was HUGE and rough and i bled everywhere, I mean EVERYWHERE and then for two weeks after that I was spotting and having brown discharge, today I just got my period so i'm not worried about pregnancy it's just he obviously I guess popped my cherry again?? but i'm scared to have sex with him again and I really want to.. just don't wanna bleed again and idk what to do