God help me.

I'm just at the end of my rope here. I'm 22w, 2d pregnant.. Ftm. I was married to my first husband for 10 years and I had unexplained infertility. Decided to try with my current husband and became pregnant the first month! What a blessing! This entire pregnancy has been trying on my every fiber of being. I've done everything I can by the book and it's been nothing but issue after issue. A bleed scare at 9 weeks, found out I have an antibody (E antibody) issue at 10 weeks that is attacking the baby's rbc and then at 20 weeks I'm told I have a short cervix (leep procedure done last year) but not to worry and we will see you in a few weeks. Went back today, it's shorter. I have my follow up appointment with my ob tomorrow. The us tech was so concerned she had to talk to the doctor before I left and he wanted me on bedrest tonight. 
My business partner is screwing me over on my business. I'm so stressed about her and her motives and my well being. My husband is less than supportive on any emotional level. I was going through things I read online with him tonight and bedrest comes up. He snaps and says, great... We will lose everything. Jeez. Seriously? I'm sorry... I feel so hurt. I understand the stress, but can't you be my husband for a moment? I'm losing hope here and I just need some encouragement.