Dominated

I don't understand how some women like to be highly dominated by their man. Like I like a little mutual bossing around in bed and I like when my man takes over and pleases me a little extra or is a tad more bossy sometimes, but I don't understand how women can just let their man like make them do stuff. It makes me feel uncomfortable and degraded to have a guy shove his dick in my mouth or force me to do something to him (even if it's just playfully forceful). Like I don't want to feel like I'm just a play toy or sex slave for a guy even in roll playing I just don't understand how some women can.