Should i give up on it?

So this is my fourth child with my husband. Im 23 weeks and can feel our little one kicking ferociously from the outside finally! Well, my husband has an aversion to feeling the baby kick and touching my belly. It really hurts my feelings and I want to bond with him over our baby. Am i just being selfish? Should I give up? I see other men loving on their wife's belly and it makes me sad. What do I do? Ive told him it makes me sad and that I really want him to. It doesnt work.