I'm literally so fed up with my fiancés mother she tells me everything I want to do it wrong, me not wanting to give certain vacs are wrong, me wanting to do the Down syndrome screening is wrong, me wanting a lotus birth is wrong, EVERYTHING I WANT FOR MY CHILD IS WRONG! And then she wants to come to my ultrasounds and appointments like its nothing!! YOU DONT SUPPORT ANYTHING I WANT BUT YOURE GOING TO TRY TO COME TO MY APPOINTMENTS. And don't sit here any tell me "blah blah you need vacs." That's not the purpose of this, I just want someone to tell me this is my child because I really don't feel like it is.