I'm staying with my cousin because she got into a wreck and needs someone to take care of her kids. SO is working in Another town for 6 weeks so it's no big deal. She lives in a 2 bedroom and bad 4 kids. Her sister also lives here. So there are 3 adults and 4 children in a 2 bedroom. Its crowded. Her kids eat nonstop and don't clean up. Het bathroom smells like someome peed om the floor 3 weeks ago and never cleaned it. The dishes are constantly piling up and if I or her sister don't wash them they'll sit there for days. Her kids are 12, 10, 8 and 6. The 12 year old boy calls my name every 5 seconds and yells at his mom everytime she tells him to do something. Or He sits there and she has to tell him 6 times and he still won't do it. The 10 year old girl thinks grown adults are children and talks to them as if they're her age. She even hits them and calls them gay, stupid and r*tards (I'm sorry I typed that out). The 8 year old girl is very loud , she yells all the time you could be sitting right in her face and she still yells. She also eats every 5 minutes and will cry if you tell her to go sit down. The 6 year old can't talk yet, cries for anything and won't eat anything but peanut butter and syrup (why I have no clue). They don't bathe. they're supposed to be in bed at 7 and never go.until about 12 . When I tell their mom about her kids not cleaning, bathing or going to bed on time she says "this is my house and their house, they do what they want and if you Don't like it you know where you can go. She doesn't work, she gets housing and food stamps and she's just lazy. I want to help her because the wreck was really bad and she's doing physical therapy but she doesn't seem to be appreciative and her kids are driving me crazy. Should I just go back home since she has no interest in controlling her kids or should I tough it out and help her? Pregnancy hormones may be making me more frustrated than I should be but all advice is welcomed (a picture of her refrigerator is below it's disgusting I know)