Mental Block

Since using the glow app i keep a record of how often my SO and I have play time. We don't have a lot of play time and it seemed like its less often now that we are trying to have a baby. The average is 5 times a month. In the last 2 months I've noticed that its like 25 days between play dates. I have a high drive and for some reason he doesn't I'm worried I'm doing something wrong. I am a little on the heavy side but idk what to think anymore. We played this morning but I didn't get to my happy place. What a waste of time.