Shutting me out.

My boyfriend hates when I don't talk to him. |&| I have learned that communication is key. But when I try to get him to talk to me it's like I'm the bad guy. |&| it hurts because I feel shut out. And in retaliation I don't wanna tell him anything. I know it won't help so I don't. But I just Feel like we should be able to talk about everything.. There shouldn't be restrictions on what we can |&| can't talk about. What do I do?