Family problems..

Really stuck. In the bad situation. His parents are very controlling over him, he's basically there baby still.. we are hopefully moving to our own house next year. (Been living with him and his parents for 3 years now) I find is so stressful and irritating. They always talk about having grand kids and spoiling them, of which I've already said they will not be spoiling them.. I just know they are going to be so annoying if and when I do get pregnant.. I don't see my family as much as they don't live close to me and I never see my mum as she left my dad on my 21st birthday. However I do want me family to be a big part of my child's life, I'm. Still unsure of my mum at the moment as she never speaks or sees me, and we don't really get on when we do see each other, but she is still my mum and I love her to pieces.... BUT his parents have been sticking there noses in and saying I shouldn't allow her to see them and that they will be there for anything and everything.

I know they are trying to be nice and whatever but I feel like snapping. Am I wrong to say no to them and there controlling ways as I don't want to start any bad atmospheres with them.

Also my partner is a mummy's boy and doesn't stand up for me and himself half the time.. I'm the one who has to speak my mind a lot of the time