I am beyond livid!

I just need to vent.....really bad! So my husband went and spent the money he had saved up for Christmas for the kids on a side by side quad thingy. Every penny! 8 days before christmas. And we have yet to even get anything so our kids at this point have nothing! Absolutely nothing! I am so pissed and beyond infuriated and hurt at the same time. He thinks he's done nothing wrong at all and even tried to flip the tables on me like I was wrong for being pissed that he did what he did?!? Then to make matters worse I was going to get about 50 bucks from him to finish paying our phone bill but can't do that now and I'm flat broke! I told him just forget it I'll find a way to get the money if I have to pawn my jewelry to make my kids Christmas happen, I DON'T CARE! And he said to me, his exact words were," How are you going to get the money? From your pimp? Or your sugar daddy?" Like are you fucking kidding me?!?! I've been with 2 people my whole fucking life and I'm 32 years old! And both guys I have been with are father's of my children so I took that as a very degrading and disrespectful insult! I went the hell off in him and he said not to twist his words?!?! I DIDN'T! He said it not me and coming from your husband at that! I am completely livid, mad as hell and hurt! I am literally on the brink of leaving. And it's not just because of this incident either. It's multiple multiple things he has done that has put us down in the hole and it has all been out of selfishness and I'm sick of it. Oh and he had the nerve to tell me I better find a different way to talk to him?!?! I didn't say anything whatsoever out of the way to him at all and I was very calm and civil when I politely told him I will find another way to pay the bill and make Christmas happen for the kids. I swear I am on the edge of a nervous breakdown. I'm sorry I needed to vent, maybe get some advice, see if I am in the wrong, I just don't know what the hell to do anymore. I swear I just feel like crawling into a corner and cry!