We had decided in the beginning not to find out the sex of our baby until birth, and planned on sticking to it even though we knew it would be very hard to wait! Well I had my 20wks ultrasound and the tech asked if we wanted her to find it and put it in an envelope just in case we changed our minds at some point because there was no turning back after this! Well she talked us into doing that! So she turned all the screens and started searching, tried her hardest and of course my stubborn little baby had it's legs crossed tightly together and would not let her see! So it looks like it was FATE that we hold off and do not find out until birth! I guess everything happens for a reason ☺️💜