Be honest...

Ladies I cant stress how if you worry your SO might have an issue or you afraid to tell him something. Just be honest with them. If they arent okay or the freak out and want to break up then they arent the one for you. I married my husband and then found out his father pushed ( basically forced by saying he would disown him.... hubby was 19 at the time) him to marry me. If he was honest about everything I would have done whatever it took to help him out and he could be happy and i would live my life too. I married him for love and thought i knew him but he didnt tell me everything and he didnt even want to know me. He was afraid to tell me because he didnt know if he could trust me. I wish he would have. We are working things out now but its not always that way and we could have had a whole lot easier lives.

So I ask you all to be as honest as possible because I never got the chance of someone being honest with me and I could have helped them out.