Does anyone else just dread going to in laws for the holidays?

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Is it just me or does anyone else hate going to the in laws for the holidays ?

Or for any reason at all really?

I can't stand it..... There are too many people in one place, I can't stand 90 percent of them its just stressful and aggravating everytime I have to do it.

They are busy bodies trying to be in my business. If I wanted y'all to know I'd tell ya. Trust. I think it's completely rude and disrespectful to ask people every year when are you two getting married, when are you going to have a child.

I also think it's wrong to be OK with people drinking and driving and to promote it. But they seem to be OK with it.

Ugh I want to enjoy the holidays just as much as anyone and yet every year its stressful. From what I have to bring ( they just by pass the actual family member and tell me what to bring) I hate having to make polite conversation with disrespectful and unnerving people.

Does anyone else go through this if so how do you deal?