Why can't I enjoy sex

Question

Okay so I have had sex multiple times with different people but every time I do it no matter what I try it's the most painful thing ever. I've tried different lubricants, different condoms, spermicide to see if I'm allergic to the condoms and nothing has ever seemed to work. Does anyone else have this problem or know why I do?

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I say see your GYN, and also have you ever had sex with yourself? A lot of women and girls expect to learn pleasure from a man when it's actually up to us to know what we like and don't. Once you get yourself there then you'll know how to enjoy it lol.

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Ok this happened to me before, and what I can say is: don't rush into it.
Take your time with foreplay... Get him to use his fingers or mouth and fingers at the same time.
Continue using the lube.
Then when you're doing it, find a position that you enjoy... If you find difficult to feel pleasure, think about your own fantasies, and just in general think about what makes you hot/horny... 
Relax and try it again, it does feel good when you do it right.
Try getting a partner that you are super comfortable with... Maybe a boyfriend or someone you know better...

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It could be dyspareunia, we were talking about it in my human sexuality class last night, you should go get it checked out

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I'd talk to a gyno. But if you're really tight or not wet enough, it could be tearing. It takes a few weeks to heal a torn vagina. I've had it happen. You can't see the tear, it's internal. Also if you've ever been sexually abused, that could be it too.

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could be endometriosis. talk to ur gyno

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You should see your obgyn.

Why can't I enjoy sex

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