I am frustrated

This morning I cried. My husband can only cum during anal and not vaginal sex anymore due to porn and fantasies of anal sex. he has filters on his comp n phone now but the effects are still there. i told him he is a selfish asshole. anyway, he didn't cum this morning and this is my fertile week.  I don't know how we can go back to being normal with vaginal intercourse. anyone have this problem? he only came once vaginally in a year.  prior years he always came vaginally. I feel like how can i continue in a relationship like this.  he has so many sexual problems being only in his 30's. (erectile dysfunction, low libido) 
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Update: We have agreed to not have anal until after his surgery in February. This way, we can focus on vaginal intercourse and try other positions. We have are next sex therapy apt in a few weeks.  Thank you all for your advice