What would you do?

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I was trying to find a number in my boyfriends phone and stumbled across someone listed as "the wife"...we've been together for almost 4yrs and have 2 kids and this is a recently added contact.
We've had problems with him talking to other women before and im furious.
I dont want to 'fly off the handle' but im losing it. How do I address this AGAIN...
Ive even thought about texting her from my phone but nobody likes getting a text saying "who is this" when they dont even know who it is from...
What do you ladies (or guys?) suggest?

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Um id be calling her actually and getting her story

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Ekk I wouldn't be comfortable with my  SO giving another women that title as a contact in his phone. I would save the number in my phone, then approach him about it. Hear his story. Check his phone in about 3-4 weeks to see if the number is still in there but under a different name.... Sorry, I know it's sneaky but I had an ex BF do this before. I had to go to these lengths to find the truth

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Is your boyfriend married? Call the number. Don't be mad at her. Be mad at your so

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The wife??? That is really weird, because if he was cheating/talking to another girl on the side I doubt he would put her under such an incriminating name. That is way more suspicious than just having her real name.

If I were you I would call her from his phone. Or call her from yours and ask.

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Is it his "work wife"? I've always hated that phrase but it exists.

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Ask him about it first before jumping to conclusions!! My SO has his best guy friend listed as wifey #2 on his contacts lol.

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I wouldn't care if she didn't know me she'd be meeting me.

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Use this app and see who it is. If you don't recognize the name, I would call and see who answers

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Save the number to your phone and type it into Facebook search, it may come up with a profile which will hopefully reassure you. If not then call/text the number. Good luck and keep us updated 🙂

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Oooohhhhh no no no. I would knock heads if I ever found some garbage like that even ONCE. Not a chance. If by some grace of who ever I actually forgave him the first time and he did it again he'd find his crap on the porch and the locks changed. Nope.

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