I know it can be harder for us to get pregnant and today i was thinking of that.. "what if" i can't have children when that's once of my biggest dream. I'll be 23 in a month and i know the older i get the harder it will be. I'm not trying to get pregnant right now but if it happens hey I'll be the happiest girl ever! Did you get pregnant with out trying. Like you didn't want to be a mom yet.