Opinion please 😘

So this cycle I've tested way too much. I can admit it lol. Anyway tested today which is 11/12dpo roughly. Bfn.. AF due this weekend. I have had cramping on and off for over a week. Last night mild cramping thought for sure she was showing her face, but then nothing & I feel really "well down there. Just clear discharge mostly with some white speks in it. Anyone get bfn until after they missed their period? Trying to remain hopeful. Thank you.