Drag Queen Boyfriend

Hey all. My boyfriend is a dedicated drag queen, and I'm totally cool with it, in fact I make most of his dresses! We're happy, and have been for a year and a half, but many people are telling me that he's "Waiting to come out." I know this isn't the case because he and I have shared so much and we are both so in love. I need to know if there's other girls or guys going through the same sort of deal, and whether or not to listen to the rumours.