So what is going on?

BD last night, and my man said something interesting to me afterwards. He said it felt like I opened up, I'm in cycle day 25, 4 days away from AF. I've been wet a whole week, now I can't tell what's going on bc we did the BD. Been bloated as usual, nausea, l headaches and peeing alot, blemishes and really wet. Usually I get wet ish like 3 days before my AF and I know I'm going to see her. TODAY my man is nauseated, and peeing alot too, I don't know what to make of this...???