"Getting pregnant is the easy part" SMH

I can't be the only one who sees so many girls with baby's and they make it look so easy I remember my mother telling me when I was young that it only takes one time and your pregnant that scared me but I am starting to see that; that was a lie me and my SO have been trying and nothing seems to work. They said getting pregnant is the easy part raising the baby is the hard but in this cause pretty sure it's the other way around sorry for that long rant but baby dust to all