Can you live without head?????

So my guy and I've been sexing for the past 4 months he has only given me head once. Talking about he doesn't like to do but expect me to give him head every time we have sex. We've started to get in arguments about it because I feel like my needs aren't being fully met. But he feels as long as he's giving good d**k then he shouldn't have to give me head. What should I do I feel like I've hit a brick wall