Advice from women who have been through this?

I went for my third early Scan to be told that my baby died at 7 weeks and 5 days 😢 I've been told all the options but couldn't really think properly I've haven't really stopped crying and when I have I'm just blank that's all I can describe but I know I need to start thinking about the next step. They want to do genetic testing on the baby so I know I need to either have the d&c procedure or the surgery. I know it's horrible to talk about and my heart goes out for any other woman going through or has gone through this but does anyone have any advice on which option I should go for? Ive been thinking that the d&c may be the better option but im just scared about it all 😔😢 I will treasure this photo forever!