Who is Mormon on here ? I wanna have sex but I'm scared to like I love fingering and stuff but I'm scared

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I'm Mormon and my church's beliefs are to wait until marriage I been sexual with my boyfriend but I haven't done it yet I'm scared of how I'm gonna feel or how good I'm going to be at it and I want to have sex I'm just scared

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Okay first off I'm a Christian and please by no means am I tryin to force anything on you.

Tbh your not supposed to do anything sexual. Because fingering and stuff is still considered sexual acts. I did have sex before marriage and regret it but I am married now and forgiven. At the end of the day you have to do what you feel in your heart is right. Of course I would want to sway you to not do it, but it is your life and you'll do whatever is your life wants. I would just pray or think about.

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Mormon girl here who goes to BYU and has spent her share of time in the Bishop's office. Don't do it, girl, it isn't worth it. Yes, you can repent later, the Atonement is real, but you will still bear the burden of it if down the road if you meet and fall in love with some virginal RM, you'll feel bad that your wedding night won't be the first time for both of you. Even if he's ok with it (and it'll be hell to try and tell him), you'll still feel sad.

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I'm a Christian but I guess my beliefs are a little more lax than other lmao. I don't think Jesus is gonna judge you for doing what feels good and what is done in love. God forgives everyone. And I'm in my personal view, pre-marital sex isn't even that big of a deal. God loves you no matter what and he doesn't take that away for any reason. Now for you personally, if you don't want this or if you think you're not ready, please don't have sex if you're scared. You should ready, willing, and eager before having sex. There's nothing wrong with sex and it can be so much fun if done right. Think thoroughly before making any decisions about this!

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if you're not ready, don't do it. if you keep your morals high on your list, but think you're ready than that's a personal decision. don't let him push you into anything either (not saying he does but yanno)

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I'm not mormon, but a Jehovah's Witness and we have the same belief as it is one from the bible. However, I found a guy i love and we did have sex, once when we were in 16 (a month after my bday) and recently (a month before my 18th bday). I loved both times and plan on marrying him one day soon, but the repercussions for my decision have not been easy since the consequences of premarital sex can be tough discipline from the elders of our congregation. (I shared my story last night in fact you might want to read it its not the whole story but it hits all the high points) Be that as it may i love the person it happened with and we plan on getting back to a better place with God and finishing our schooling (college) and starting our life together. I was comfortable with him and that is the most important thing when you choose to loose something so precious. People pretend like its no big deal and for guys usually its not but for us girls to have that taken from you from someone who doesnt really care for you, is something you can regret for the rest of your life. So pick wisely and if your not ready don't let anyone force you.

Who is Mormon on here ? I wanna have sex but I'm scared to like I love fingering and stuff but I'm scared

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