Lightning my hair. In the pics are my hair before an after. Also any makeup tips ? I feel like I look like a crack dealer with my normal makeup style now.

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So I had really light hair. It was blondish Brown an I dyed it a chocolate Brown and a sandalwood color. I'm in love with the sandalwood but I'm not too thrilled about how dark the chocolate is... Is there a way I can lighten it without bleach?