I hate him 😡

My husband and I barely have sex anymore😠 he never wants it and when we do ( like three times a month ) its because I initiate it... I'm always complaining about him not giving me any and he thinks I'm freaking joking. Tonight I asked him to take a shower and brush his teeth because I've been wanting to get intimate with him all day! And he said no he was already in bed so I went ahead and took a shower and when I came out he's freaking asleep! 😡😤😤😤 Im just hating him so much right now...