I just had my retrieval on Sunday and now awaiting my transfer my discharge papers stated pelvic rest no sexual contact but it's causing a problem in our relationship. My tubal reversal didn't work so I did <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">ivf</a> in hopes of us being able to have a child of our own (I have children from a past relationship) but he acts like that's all that's important has anyone else had to deal with this mind you he's not one of those who releases from oral stimulation trust me we have tried long time.