So today we found out we are having a boy! Super excited and started to discuss baby names with my husband. My father passed away when I was 15 and I thought that it would be a great idea to incorporate part of his name into our sons name. I am not a huge fan of my fathers middle name so I was thinking either his first or his last (my maiden name). My husband has turned everything down because he doesn't want our baby to have two first names. Nor does he like the idea of adding my maiden name. My father was the light of my life and I want our son to be able to share something with his grandpa who is no longer here with us. Am I being selfish asking this of him?