Should I find out the gender?

Question

My boyfriend is on deployment and I really want him to be here to reveal the gender but there is no date when he will be back in the states. I am only 14 weeks and so curious to find out, but I shouldn't be feeling guilty. What would you do?

Answer

Maybe you could Skype with him at the ultrasound when they find the gender so that way you guys find out together... if you guys can Skype or face time or whatever.

Answer

You can ask if there is anyone in his unit you can tell the gender to, and that person could plan a cool way to reveal to him.  That way you can find out, and it could end up being a special highlight during his deployment.  Have someone take a video of his reaction so you can watch it when he gets back!

Answer

This is a really personal choice, I know that personal couldn't wait. I found out the second I turned 13 weeks. But I know others who really do want to make it a surprise.

Should I find out the gender?

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