Intense sex help

I'm not gonna lie my boyfriend is amazing he's kind and gentle but in the bed omg he's dominant. Sure dominance is fine but he's like (50 shades of grey). No I don't mean chains and whips, I mean he loves being in control. I feel like I'm not good enough like I'm lame when it comes to sex. What should I do to play in the same field. I know y'all got some tips and tricks 🙄👌🏼