Tired of negative people around me lol

So how about I hate to be available for people only for when they want something.. Like seriously I'm not here just for that like wow, ugh but I just text and say hi how are u ect. just a thought  a random text to see how they are doing and I don't get a reply but when they need a favor they blow up my phone wow.. Ugh I'm tired of those people around me and my husband says I'm over reacting. Idk sorry just venting lol that's why I say I don't have friends like really my only friends are my husband and my son! Deuces!!