Miscarried and loss of a family member how to deal? Advice?

January 13th I lost my first pregnacy at 6 weeks. February 5th my boyfriends brother commited suicide. We just found out yesterday. Our 2016 year has been filled with loss how do you possibley deal with this? I have been the strength in the family lately because I'm dealing with it best. I have been through it alot. Any advice. We are praying for a pregnacy to bring some positivity into our family. We tried right after the miscarry and I test tomorrow morning to see if I am at 11dpo praying we get a positive.