Taking back your husband after he cheated

Ik there's the strong women who call others dumbass when they take a cheater back pls don't comment  i feel dumb but i love this man so to the women who have taken back their s/o after cheating how did you do it were going to counseling next week but everyday since i found out i cant stop bringing it up? 
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Lo

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My husband hasn't cheated but I know from previous experiences that if u r going to take him back then u have to let it go or neither of u will learn from it. If u continue to hold on to it then u aren't actually over it which could cause more problems.

Bi

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You'll get over it after a while , I brought it up a couple times. You forgive but don't forget . U just make better memories to not have to bring it up again 

Sy

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You bring it up because all your answers haven't been answered I think it's only natural because you trusted this person and they betrayed you. My husband of 16 years cheated on me about 6 years ago with a coworker / friend I noticed his change in his behavior and clothing decisions he also had his phone pretty much glued to him. I don't know why he thought he could get away with it I studied criminality for 2 years my dad also was a lost prevention officer and I learned from the best lol. But I did fallow my gut and confronted her and asked why knowing he has a wife and 3 kids. She said because she could so I told her well come pick up his shit it will be on the sidewalk better hurry before the homeless go through it. Don't think your he's staying in my house and you'll probably be the one driving him to work because the van is in my name. Oh yah I forgot to mention all those zeros you seen in his account will it's a joint account and I'm on my way to make a withdrawal so enjoy you you home wrecking b#$@h. We split for about a year and he spent 364 days of it trying to apologize because she left him that same day. But I did give him a second chance it wasn't easy for me but I love that man just as you do and you can't change what the heart wants and love isn't easy. Wish you the best big ooooxooo

Ra

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I messed up and cheated before my husband and I got married. I'm so glad he took me bad. People make mistakes and do change.

An

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I just recently forgave my bf who was cheating for almost a year. It's hard , it's going to be hard. But if he's really willing to work it out and change then it'll be okay. Things wi be okay. People can change if they really want to

Sa

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It never leaves your mind. You'll always worry it'll happen again. Hopefully he'll be helpful to you to help get your trust back! 

An

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Forgive and forget. It can be fixed. I know from experience.. But I was the one who fucked up. I would never do that again. I still love my boyfriend thank god he has forgiven me

Mi

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Sometimes it's harder to just forgive and forget. I forgave, and I never can stop thinking about it. Because there were more then one case. Just the ones I walked in. And they were in underware "starting" we were all drunk I stepped away and yeah. Make sure you are going to be able to talk. It will eat yiu up at points and bring you down at points. I've had girls sending pictures when he was in the hospital! So could go 50/50

ch

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I've forgotten my husband once but u made it clear to him if he cheated on me again or disrespected me , he would no longer have a roll in my or my kids life at all.

rw

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Counseling or it will not work