Do not ACTIVELY TRY TO HAVE A BABY if...

You owe past due rent and are threatened with being evicted because you have the money but want to look fly instead of paying your bills.

You don't have license, registration, and insurance and now you have warrants in your name but still continue to drive a car on the street. Because you're too good to take the bus.

The person you're trying to have kids with has made dozens of other women single mothers and he doesn't do anything for his kids. If you do have kids with him don't complain about being a single mother and him not spending time with your kid.

You make a low income compared to your expenses but instead of paying your bills you cash out to show off to people who don't care but your kids don't have the basic necessities they need or you don't have basic necessities in your house.

The person you're trying to have kids with is against you making moves in your life to improve yourself and is verbally/physically abusive.

You are on addicted to drugs that cause major harm babies in utero. Clean yourself for an extended period of time before trying.

The person you're trying to have a baby with has no income and isn't trying to find a job and you are not willing/wanting nor can you provide for them and your baby by yourself.

You already have kids and you don't value their education and dont help them with their homework.

If you don't plan on loving them unconditionally for who they are or want to be whether that is gay straight, dress like a boy girl, lizard, elephant, whatever.

Y'all can call it judgemental that's your opinion this is my opinion. Thank you.

Its not personal because I do not personally (close friends or family members) know anyone who is trying to have a baby doing these things. But I see it everyday on social media. And these kids struggle.