One thing that I can't stand is people saying "oh, I'm not ready for you to go into labor yet, I have (fill in the blank) going on this week/weekend." I'm sorry but the day I give birth DOES NOT revolve around you. I don't care if your a grandparent, bestfriend, etc. This is a day that is important t my husband and I and if you are dying to be there you can change your plans. Sorry, not sorry.