Income Tax

For the last 5 years my BIL has been doing my taxes well this year I didn't get them on the day he said I was and after 2 days of him not taking my calls or text I call IRS he told me I was getting $4800 but I actually got $8116. What he did was get a prepaid card in my name and had it sent to that account. So I had the card blocked after 21 transactions had been used on the card. After this the account people let the police no so the tapes were pulled at Walmart and home decor Bam my sister was using MY card. I'm 1 of 7 girls I'm next to the baby(im35). Would you break the family apart by sending them both to jail or would you let it go? I have textes from him admitting to this and more