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I'm 19 & live with my fiancé. He has become controlling over the months to the point where I'm in shock. I've been on my way out a few times but he's turned it to my fault, so I end up staying. How can I actually get out of this kind of behavior? Like how do I go about it? What to say?

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Be blunt. Let his ass know that you'll survive without him. You don't NEED him, you CHOOSE to be with him and if he can't straighten up his act then your gone. If he doesn't like that when you tell him then prove to him that you mean what you say. Pack a little and walk out the door with no words and don't look back. If he loves you he'll get ahold of you and work things out

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Get out while you can. If you have a family member or friend you can stay with go there. Controlling people almost never stop. If you really want to stay maybe try couples therapy defiantly before getting married, then it will be much harder to leave

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Leaving is the most dangerous time with an abusive partner so be careful and try to plan it while he's not home. Once out completely cut him off, block and delete everything from him because he will try beyond imagination to get you back. If its not to that point just leave totally ignore anything he says and go

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You have to make up your own mind what you want to do regardless of what he says because 9 times out of 10 he's going to try to turn it on you or make up excuses why he's being the way he is but no matter what it's not safe for you to be there emotionally or possibly physically. Trust me you will find love sooner than you think but that relationship is toxic and you have to get out. And make sure you let someone know that you plan on leaving him just in case he gets out of hand

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Just leave....It's hard to do and I know they make you feel guilty but it will only get worse if you stay.

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