Interracial baby concerns

So I'm in love with my Colombian. His family is a blessing too. But we are starting to not see eye to eye.

We are debating on names, circumcision (if it's a boy), how much eat (I'm not trying to eat for two), care giving and the fact he wants me too stay home all the time. I wouldn't mind the staying home party but I do live the social interaction I get from my job and the fact extra income helps.