Ultimatum !

Would you give your spouse an ultimatum? I have spoken to my s.o , so many times of the things that I need. We don't go out and he hasn't taken me out. He doesn't please me the way I want in the bedroom as I do,for him .it's so,routine and boring. Ive spoken to,him til,I'm blue. I'm tired of talking. We recently went out,only,because his friends (a couple) invited is and I paid. HE had asked me if i wanted to,go and i said yes but then thought wait,he doesnt have the cash i guess i have to,pay. He should of told his friend to reschedule. Hes been this way since i met him so why am i complaining now I'm thinkinga a. I guess because i expected him to,work on himself and our relationship as an adult. I do,a lot I'm so,thoughtful and he isn't as much. I do,make more than him .so much,more. Am I wrong to want more out of him romantically and emotionally? I'm pregnant I don't want to, be a single mom. Were together 6months. He knows how I feel.